The Art of Friendship
The list in the article went as follows. One friend that you can exercise with, One that will keep your secrets, One "couple friend" for date nights with your husbands, One friend that shares your personal interests and One friend who will always be there for you in a crisis.
I never knew what amazing friends I had until I hit a hard spot last week. I guess you could call it a crisis. I didn't really have to mention it because good friends just know. They knew me well enough to know I was not myself.
There were those who were kind enough not to ask the details. One was always there at the right time with a supportive word or note. One who got me away for the day. One to go the the Temple with. One who gave me a phone call just when I needed it and I couldn't talk to anyone else. A few who brought flowers to let me know they were thinking of me. Gestures of kindness are always most appreciated when they are without judgement. Friends amaze me when they have so many problems of their own, but listen to me as I work through mine.
I have never found 5 friends that fit into the categories listed in the article. I found something better. I have friends who have such tender hearts their qualities can't be listed. I have friends who know what to say to say when I need it the most.
Things are getting better. I am moving forward. When I look back at this time I hope I remember less of the hurt I felt and more of the loving support I felt from my friends.
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and sings it back to you when you have forgotten the words" ---Unknown
